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And what do you like?

And what do you like?

A pleasant young man puzzled me with this question. I don’t know about you, it has always been extremely difficult for me to answer such questions. What do I like? At that moment, I liked everything: a cozy cafe in which it was so nice to warm up after the severe Moscow frost that awaited our return, a sweet latte with cinnamon and my favorite coconut syrup, a huge brownie that didn’t scare me at all with its size, and to my companion I was not indifferent ... But they expected an answer from me.

Sun, mango and sea - that was the first thing that came to my mind. But still the question remained open for me personally.

You know, it's much easier for me to answer the opposite question. There are two things I really don't like - being late and seafood. The first - because of the inner feeling that I almost betray a person, yes, I have such quirks, the second - because of the vile smell, forgive me lovers of shrimp and other delicacies. Everything else I treated at least equally.

I really love the sun. I love when I'm hot, I like to wear light things. Although I also sincerely love my warm cozy beige sweaters. I like to drink strong black tea with honey from my huge half-liter mug. I also like green tea, always cold, and preferably with ice. I love sweet fruits, so much so that I would gladly trade my diet for a year's supply of oranges and mangoes. I love shopping, watching fashion magazines and imagining myself as one of their heroines. I love to dream and believe in the realization of my desires. I like to sleep until three in the afternoon under my soft warm blanket, and then slowly eat my favorite porridge with cherries for “breakfast”. I love my red lipsticks. I like to take care of myself and look at my beautiful reflection in the mirror. After all, I love myself...

While I was writing my entire list, some strange feeling arose inside me, very similar to happiness. You know, as a child, when you waited a whole week for the weekend to go with your parents to the carousel and drink the most delicious Coca-Cola from a glass with a straw. Such a simple and uncomplicated happiness, which, however, we often lack. It's in the little things that we don't notice most of the time. We are often told that we need to be simpler, but people tend to complicate things, and apparently it’s true: happiness is simple.

Now I’ll go and make my favorite tea, wrap myself in a cozy blanket and turn on some simple but kind movie, and I won’t think about anything - after all, this is what I love.

P.S. What do you love?

1. How old would you give yourself if you didn't know your age?

2. Which is worse: failing or never trying?

3. Why, if life is so short, do we do so much of what we don't like to do, and at the same time do so little of what we love?

4. If the work is completed, all is said and all is done, which was more - talking or doing?

5. If you were allowed to change only one thing in the world, what would it be?

6. If happiness becomes the national currency, what job will make you rich?

7. Do you do what you believe in, or do you try to believe in what you do?

8. If the average human life lasted 40 years, what would you change in your life to live it as interesting as possible?

9. How much control do you have over what happens in your life?

10. Are you more worried about doing things right or doing the right things?

11. You have lunch with three people you respect and appreciate. They begin to criticize your close friend, not knowing that you are friends with him. This criticism is humiliating and unfair. What will you do?

12. If you could give a small child only one piece of advice in a lifetime, what would you say?

13. Could you break the law to save a loved one?

14. Did you see madness where you later saw genius?

15. What do you do differently in this life than other people?

16. How is it that what makes you happy doesn't make everyone else happy?

17. What did you really want to do, but never did? What is stopping you?

18. Are you holding on to something that you should have let go?

19. If you were offered to permanently move to another country, where would you move and why?

20. Do you press the elevator call button more than once? Do you really believe this will speed up the elevator?

21. What would you like to be: a nervous genius or a happy fool?

22. Why are you you?

23. If you could become your own friend, would you like such a friend?

24. What is worse: if your best friend moves to live in another country, or lives nearby, but you stop communicating?

25. What are you most grateful for in this life?

26. What will you choose: lose all your past memories, or never have new ones?

27. Is it possible to achieve the truth without fighting?

28. Has your biggest fear come true?

29. Do you remember how you were terribly upset about 5 years ago? Does it matter now?

30. What is your happiest childhood memory? What makes it so?

31. What events from your past made you feel real, alive?

32. If not now, then when?

33. If you haven't achieved it yet, what do you have to lose?

34. Have you ever been with someone and didn't say anything and then decided it was the best conversation you ever had?

35. Why has a religion that preaches love caused so many wars?

36. Is it possible to know without a shadow of a doubt what is good and what is bad?

37. If you were given a million dollars now, would you quit your job?

38. What would you like more: to have a lot of work to do, or not enough work, but the one you like to do?

39. Do you have the feeling that today has already been repeated hundreds of times before?

40. When was the last time you began to actively act, having only the germ of an idea in your head, but at the same time already strongly believing in it?

41. If everyone you know dies tomorrow, who will you visit today?

42. Would you like to trade 10 years of your life for worldwide fame and attractiveness?

43. What is the difference between life and existence?

44. When is it time to calculate the risk and start doing what you think is right?

45. If we learn from our mistakes, why are we afraid to make them?

46. ​​What could you do differently, knowing that no one will judge you?

47. When was the last time you noticed the sound of your own breathing? What about heartbeats?

48. What do you like? Did your last actions express this love?

49. For each day of the past 5 years, can you remember what you did yesterday? And the day before yesterday? And the pose the day before yesterday?

50. Decisions are made here and now. Do you take them yourself, or does someone else take them for you?

Blogs that make you think, strive for awareness and change in life

Harmony Seeker. The coolest blog about minimalism ever. No radicalism, condemnation of "those who are not with us", teachings. Just a calm presentation of my experience and my views on lifestyle, useful tips and very beautiful photos.

Anna Chernykh's blog. About minimalism, reasonable consumption and self-care. Anya writes about her life and how to get rid of the excess in order to make room for something more.

GoVita. On how to be yourself: seek their meanings and values, their shores. How to prefer yourself to all other roles, even when it is embarrassing, scary or painful. Vitalina repeats that being yourself is not always easy, but it is the only way to be alive. And I absolutely agree with her.

Salatshop . About how to be cheerful and healthy in a big city. My favorite health blog! Simple and clear recipes, celebrity secrets, links to useful videos. And no fitons.

Life optimization. About about organization of life and wardrobe, cost control, time planning, minimalism, decluttering and order in the head.

Projects and self-development

Just Tralala. Masha explores addiction to social networks (I follow the project “A Year Without Facebook” with interest), gets rid of the excess and learns not to buy unnecessary things. Writes great book reviews, tests ideas, meditation and sports.

inspired by life. About how to build the life of your dreams, where to get the strength for it and how to start taking action. Machine's example inspires not to whine and not to give up, but to take hold of yourself and skip to your dreams, noticing the beauty of the moment along the way and finding words of gratitude in your heart even in very, very dark times.

Let's Cook It. Julia is a food blogger who not only shares recipes and interestingly talks about the culinary habits of great writers, but also leads the Year Lived Right project and takes part in a book marathon.

Miss Happiness. Olya explores the topic of happiness and is looking for her own recipe for creating it. With passion and taste, she writes about sports, various challenges like Hell Week, writing practices and healthy eating.

Blogging, books, business

Mann, Ivanov & Ferber Publishing Blog. I love it for the announcements of new books and excerpts from them. Every time I post a new blog post, I get the distinct feeling that anything is possible in this world.

Gophotoweb Blog. I love it for its usefulness about doing business and websites.

Start Blog Up . I love it for good blogging tips, easy delivery and superb blog brunches, the announcement of which every time makes me bite my elbows because I'm not in St. Petersburg (but, fortunately, my elbows are safe thanks to the brunch videos).

Ask yourself before it's too late.

Chantal Gerber is the co-founder of Want2Discover, a self-development project.

You can close this article right now, pretend that you have never seen it, and live on as you lived. But when do you plan to challenge yourself to live a bigger, more meaningful, more fulfilling, and more meaningful life?

You see, many of us live on autopilot. We no longer direct the course of our lives, but become part of standard schemes and routines. And what is most unpleasant, we begin to be satisfied with this comfort, we stop pushing ourselves towards a more meaningful life. If you're starting to feel like you're living on autopilot, then it's probably time to ask yourself some important questions—those we often avoid because they can push us out of our comfort zone. But it's never too late to change the course of your life. And the questions from the list below are the first step to realizing what you need to change and what to act differently. But be sure to answer honestly and don't be afraid of complex, conflicting emotions - this is exactly what you need to push yourself to make much-needed changes.

1. Do you like the person you have become?
2. What will people say about you at your funeral?
3. What will you regret not doing in your life?
4. What is the wisest thought you have ever heard?
5. What have you learned from your personal bitter experience?
6. How often do your strongest anxieties and fears come true?
7. If you had a year to live, what would you try to achieve?
8. Are you in the service of money, or is money in the service of you?
9. Are you afraid to be yourself around other people? Why?
10. What are you grateful for?
11. Have you recently done something that you are proud of?
12. Have you done something kind recently?
13. If you knew you were going to die tomorrow, what questions would you ask yourself?
14. If your worst fears came true, would it matter five years later?
15. How would you describe yourself?
16. Do you take other people's advice?
17. Do you get offended quickly?
18. Do you consider yourself a pleasant person?
19. “What we get ensures our existence. What we give creates our life.” What do these words of Winston Churchill mean to you?
20. Do you enrich the lives of others?
21. Are you living a meaningful life?
22. What is a meaningful life?
23. Would you give your life to save another person's life?
24. How much are you willing to sacrifice for people in poverty?
25. If you could live the same day over and over again, what would you rather do on that day?
26. Do you consider yourself important and worthy of affection and love?
27. What will help you feel like a more worthy person? What should be different about you?
28. What upsets you the most?
29. Would you agree to work less (and do what you love) and earn less?
30. What brings you peace?
31. What is the main quality you look for in others?
32. What is your main dream?
33. What is your main fear?
34. How would the world have changed if you had not been born?
35. What life lessons would you like to know ten years ago?
36. If you could say one thing to yourself when you were young, what would it be?
37. If your life were a movie, what would it be called?
38. If your life were a movie, would you enjoy watching it?
39. What does success mean to you?
40. If you could be a different person, what would you be?
41. What was the best day of your life? Why do you think so?
42. What are you most looking forward to in life?
43. What bad habits would you like to give up?
44. Who is your authority and why?
45. Do you know your partner's love language?
46. ​​Do the people you love the most know how you love them?
47. Are you satisfied with the depth of your relationships with people?
48. What do you owe yourself?
49. Given your current daily life, what do you expect to achieve in five years?
50. Do you often say "yes" when you really want to say "no"? Why?
51. What did you learn yesterday?
52. What do you like about yourself?
53. Would you call yourself a generous person?
54. When people talk to you, do you really listen?
55. What is the most important thing you need to change in your life this year?
56. How many hours a week do you spend on the Internet?
57. What are your most common negative thoughts? Do they have logic?
58. Do you think that some things are too late for you to take on? Why?
59. If you could become the most powerful person in the world, what would you change?
60. How much time do you spend with family and friends?
61. Where do you want to be in five years?
62. Do things that are not necessary complicate your life?
63. How could you simplify your life and focus on what matters most?
64. What causes you stress?
65. What makes your life easier?
66. How often do you share something without expecting something in return?
67. What is the biggest challenge in your life?
68. What is the most important thing for you in life? Are you giving it enough time?
69. If you could send a message to the whole world, what would you say in 30 seconds?
70. What do you not tell anyone about and really regret about it?
71. When was the last time you tried something new?
72. Are you afraid to express your own opinion?
73. Do you often give in to the persuasion of others, and then feel resentment and regret?
74. Do you hold on to something to leave behind?
75. How often do you let your fears keep you from taking action?
76. Do people in your life help you to show your best side?
77. How often do you dismiss others with excuses?
78. What mistake will you never make again?
79. What is worse - to fail or not to try at all?
80. What helped your personal growth more - challenges and trials or pleasant and cozy moments of life?
81. If you could make sure that there were no more challenges and obstacles in your life, would you agree to it?
82. What stands between you and your most important goal? Give the answer in one word.
83. How often do you go to bed feeling angry or angry?
84. Is it bad to steal to feed a hungry child?
85. If you paid more attention to the sad aspects of life, would you experience more internal conflicts?
86. If you learn from mistakes, why is it so bad to suffer defeat?
87. What in life could you pay more attention to?
88. Why do we think about other people the most when they are not around?
89. What does it mean to get the most out of your life?
90. In what did you give up, give up?
91. How many people do you really love and what do you do for them?
92. Do you ask enough questions, or are you happy with what you already know?
93. What were you doing the last time you lost track of time?
94. Would you be happy if you didn't have to work anymore?
95. If you could ask for one wish to come true, what would it be?
96. What inspires you in life?
97. What can you most not live without?
98. What do you like to do over and over again?
99. When was the last time you laughed until your stomach hurt?
100. What is stopping you from living the life you want to live? Hopefully, after studying these questions, your brain goes crazy with all sorts of thoughts and ideas. This is just what you need! By taking the time and effort to answer these questions, you will almost certainly find more depth in your life. If we always avoided important issues that provoke us to change our lives, nothing would change!